So I’ve spent a bunch of time learning how to interact with and talk to people with greater ease and efficiency. I love being able to converse with anyone and truly create a relationship, even quickly. However when it comes to celebrities things are different. Everyone wants to create a relationship with them and you unfortunately are everyone.
If you see a celebrity in front of you, you obviously can’t use a normal, “Hey your [name], how’s it going”, you can’t even use something like that with just a hot girl/popular guy or in both cases you’ll get blown out of the water. There’s plenty of literature on how to talk to hot girls and guys out there (The Game) and though with celebrities even this knowledge won’t work initially. Most people who are good at talking to people tend to have base or core lines they always reach for first or revert back to for most initial conversations. For example with a guy I tend to ask where he got his shirt and can go into a number of little stories from there.
I wanted to create a universal line I could use, such as ‘where did you get that shirt’ that could be used on most celebrities. The line is, “Do you [blank] in the shower?” You would need to say before hand something like, “Hey real quick, I’ve always wondered…” You fill in the blank with whatever they’re famous for, if they’re a singer you say ’sing’, if they’re an actor you say ’say lines’. It’s a question that will almost always get their attention without offending them, which is your goal. Right after asking the question, while they are looking at you slightly surprised and puzzled (perfect!) you say (if they’re a singer) ‘I just always wondered if someone like you still sung in the shower’; or if they’re an actor it’d be more like, “I just always wondered if actors said their lines in the shower like singers sing in the shower”. At that point if you seem quite sincere and harmless they’ll probably chuckle and actually answer you.
Now when apply this I first split celebrities in to two groups, alpha celebrities and beta celebrities. The alphas are the celebrities that you really can’t pretend not to know because they’re just that famous such as Beyonce, Will Smith, or Robert DeNiro. Beta celebrities are those that might not be known to everyone such as the star of a hit TV show. Sure you watch that show but it’s perfectly acceptable to the celebrity that people wouldn’t know who they were. Also say you’re at an event where a beta celebrity is giving a speech, they are now a known beta, meaning you can’t pretend not to know them, and pretty much must be treated as an alpha.
For alpha celebrities you start initially with the in the shower opener. Then right after you get them to actually answer the question you can now start with the core or other openers you have, such as my where’d you get that shirt. You now seem like a fun, harmless person that they might actually want to get to know and thus you have some runway to continue the conversation.
If they are a beta celebrity start with your normal core openers like they were any other hot girl/popular guy. They’ll be testing you to see if you really know who they are so don’t mind them being reserved at first. If they happen to reveal they’re celebrity status then go into the shower opener to show you’re harmlessness and slightly funny side.
And there you go. A cool little opener that can be use universally and should be pretty adaptable.